Article by: MaryEllen | Wednesday, August 9, 2017

By Joyce Bone

Do you want to boost your selling power? Then, add power to your persuasion.

How can you add power to your persuasion? How can you become more effective at persuading your customers to buy?

Here’s my top 10:

(1) Be positive

I’m from Georgia. We kinda talk funny sometimes but never underestimate us. Here’s what one successful insurance salesmen from South Georgia, had to say, “You can no more sell something you don’t believe in, than you can come back from some place you ain’t been.”

Successful salespeople are positive people.

They have positive mental attitudes about themselves, the companies they represent, the products or services they’re selling, the prospects they’re attempting to persuade, the country they live in. They’re positive about everything. There is no room for “stinkin’ thinkin’” when you are committed to making great things happen in your life!

Enthusiasm is contagious. When you’re excited about life and the work you’re doing, you can persuade with power, because you can get other people excited. Passion sells my friends!

(2) Prospect

Successful salespeople have learned to direct their persuasive power toward people who have the resources to buy and have good reasons to buy what they are selling.

Successful salespeople pinpoint prospects who are likely to provide long-term profitability. They analyze the possibilities for cross-selling. They know that it takes an average of three calls to cross-sell an existing customer but seven to sell to a new customer.

In short, the powerful persuader targets all efforts at the person who has the resources, the motivation, and the authority to buy, and the potential for profitable repeat sales.

(3) Prepare

The average salesperson will work like crazy to get an appointment, then blow the opportunity with a poor presentation after the decision-maker has agreed to the interview.

You don’t make sales to busy people by rambling on for 40 minutes about features and benefits. Usually, after such disjointed presentations, neither the salesperson nor the prospect can summarize what’s just been said.

Professional salespeople always do their homework. They know that the better they’re prepared, the more persuasive they’ll be when they walk in to make a presentation.

They research to find out everything they need to know about the prospect. They plan what they will show and what they will say. And they practice, practice, practice.

There is a great book out there called, “How to Get Your Point Across in 60 Seconds or Less” by Milo O. Frank. I bought it as a joke to give my mother-in-law for Christmas. She didn’t laugh.

(4) Perform

Amateur salespeople complain furiously when they are beaten out by a competitor. The customer was no idiot. The complainer was just outperformed by a more competitive salesperson.

Remember: People don’t buy; they’re sold. In fact, nothing is ever bought. Everything has to be sold. If you don’t make a strong presentation, you can’t persuade your prospect to buy.

Powerful persuaders are like stage actors playing to a full house. They are artists at making their presentations. They’re entertaining and informative to watch and hear.

To succeed in business, you have to make every second of every minute of your “action time” count.

(5) Be perceptive

Powerful persuaders are alert to everything that happens during a sales interview.

They are not preoccupied with personal problems, with airline schedules, or even with the next call they are going to make. They know that reaching a sales goal always begins with making the sale at hand.

Powerful persuaders tune into their prospects and look for the motivating forces in the life of each. Once they discover that motivating force, they play to the motivation.

To add power to your persuasion, learn to read your prospects and to discover the motivations they have to buy or not to buy.

(6) Probe

Average salespeople do a lot of talking. That’s why silence is so threatening to most salespeople. The instant a prospect pauses to take a breath, the amateur will jump in with a sales spiel, just to break the silence.

But powerful persuaders use questions to diagnose the needs and concerns of a prospect much as a skilled physician uses them to diagnose the problems of a patient.

They become masters at asking penetrating questions, and they use those questions to draw prospects into the selling process.

(7) Personalize

The most powerful word in selling is you.

The emphasis on you marks the difference between manipulative and non-manipulative selling.

Manipulative selling is self-centered. It focuses on what the salesperson wants and needs.

Non-manipulative selling is client-centered. It focuses on the needs and desires of the prospect.

A person who is looking at the business proposition you are offering wants to know just one thing: What’s in it for me?

If you want to add power to your persuasion, personalize every part of your presentation to meet your prospect’s own personal needs and wants.

(8) Please

Powerful persuaders seek to close sales by pleasing their clients. When prospects become excited about the idea of owning what you’re selling, they become customers.

Professional salespeople know that they can’t force their prospects to buy. Their challenge is to make them want to buy. So they seek to please them in so many ways that they create the desire to buy.

(9) Prove

Salespeople with selling savvy don’t make statements they can’t back up with facts.

And they don’t expect their clients to accept at face value everything they say. They are always prepared to prove every claim they make — to back up those claims with hard data, with test results, and with performance records.

One of the best ways to persuade by proving is to give proof statements from people who are happy with your products or services. Third-party endorsements go a long way in building credibility for your claims, and for your products.

Facts and testimonials are very persuasive. Learn to use them, and become a powerful persuader.

(10) Persist

Call on good prospects as many times as it takes to sell them. About 80% of sales are made on the fifth call or later. Yet studies have shown that:

· 50% of America’s salespeople call on a prospect one time, and quit.
· 18% call on a prospect twice, and give up.
· 7% call three times, and call it quits.
· 5% call on a prospect four times before quitting.
· Only 20% call on a prospect five or more times before they quit.

It’s that 20% who close 80% of the sales in America.

You don’t have to become a dynamic personality to sell. You don’t have to put pressure on people, or out-talk people to sell.

The most effective thing you can do is to apply your own selling savvy to these ten ways to add strength to your persuasion.

Learn how to persuade more effectively and you will boost your selling power.


As a stay at home mom, Joyce Bone took a $10,000 risk and co-founded EarthCare, an environmental company. It grew into a $125 million dollar NASDAQ traded powerhouse. Her book, Millionaire Moms – The Art of Raising a Business and a Family at the Same Time , shares her phenomenal success story and that of 35 millionaire moms who share their best advice and insights on how you too can achieve your dreams.